Written by: Vanessa Ewbank, Professional Learning Specialist
Ever wonder what your child’s school day looks like? Connecting with your student about their experiences can strengthen your bond and encourage their love of learning. It’s not just about asking questions—it’s about showing them that their school day matters to you. With a little effort, you can create meaningful conversations that foster connection and curiosity.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Skip the usual “How was school?” and ask something more engaging, like, “What was the best part of your day?” or “Did anything make you laugh?” These questions encourage your child to share stories, making the conversation more interesting for both of you.
Review Together
Spend time looking at their assignments or creative projects. Instead of focusing on grades, highlight their effort: “This drawing is so colorful! What inspired you?” or “Your essay has such great details—how did you decide on this topic?” This not only boosts their confidence but also gives you insight into what excites or challenges them.
Share Your Day
Model openness by sharing something from your own day. For example, “I learned something interesting in a meeting today, and it reminded me of what you’re learning in science!” Sharing your experiences creates a comfortable, two-way dialogue that builds trust and encourages them to open up.
Encourage Reflection
Ask questions that help your child focus on growth and positivity. “What’s one thing you’re proud of from today?” or “What are you excited about tomorrow?” Reflection helps them build a growth mindset and stay engaged with their learning.
By taking these small steps, you show your child that their school experiences are important—and that you’re their biggest cheerleader. Over time, these moments of connection can grow into traditions that strengthen your relationship and help your child thrive. Start building those bridges today, one conversation at a time!
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